She Loves Being Treated Like Crap
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A myriad of women out there continually feed the perpetual rat running the wheel of relationship martyrdom in that they are unreservedly and foolishly attracted to men who treat them like shit.
It seems as though they make it their life’s mission to run out and find the dude who is best equipped to treat her for an endless midnight European dinner consisting of a big heaping helping of Dog Crap a la Beaujolais. Yet they will unhesitatingly serve up the exact same kind of gourmet dog crap to any other guy out there who’ll actually extend them any amount of decency or respect.
“OMG, he’s a wimp. He’s too girly. He’s too sensitive. He’s just too….. NICE. Ewww!” How many effing times have you heard that before?
I learned very early on what kind of asshole I wasn’t going to submit to- which is to say I’d never submit to ANY asshole. I was a freshman in high school and I was dating this guy for a couple of months of whom one day, I was sitting with in his car along with a few of his buddies, when he all of the sudden told me frank he was going to slap the taste out of my mouth if I didn’t shut up. Needless to say, I got out of his car, kicked the door shut and never spoke to him again.
He was surely looking for a chick just like the one my ex’s dad was foolishly going around town with- some ungrateful broad of whom he tried to lavish with gifts, finer treatment, and the utmost respect- who subsequently couldn’t effing hang. Instead what did she do? He bought her a brand new motorcycle and a week later she issued him his walking papers. The bitch didn’t even have the decency to give back the motorcycle. She got what she wanted and he never saw her again.
Both of these tales are all too common, with the prick being a central figure as either the deterrent or the encouragement. Unfortunately, some women feel like being a woman and having a vag is giving any dude they see fit the license to kick it with his dirty tennis shoes until it bleeds to death and falls off.
And the solution to this problem, as most people see it is, the girl has issues. Like no effing duh she has issues and the nice guys who choose to get involved with a woman who begs for a man to treat her like shit have a few lessons coming. The biggest one being, a girl with a bad boy fetish will sooner dump he, who treats her right than hang around with him simply because:
He is too effing good for her.
What the hell else in Sam Hill is wrong with these chicks?
They’ve never been in a supremely mutually fulfilling relationship.
They’ve never had it so good, so they don’t know what to do with it when it arrives. They’re used to being given a dirty tube sock filled to the seams with fungus and putrid sweat they’re more than eager and content to hand wash and let drip dry over their blind eyes and thick heads.
They don’t know what it’s like to have the princess treatment because they’re stuck in a prison that’s built up and heavily guarded by dirtbags for peonic paupers.
They’ve taken on the role as the victim under the possession of being his “submissive”.
Some of these chicks want to be the lesser of two evils, so they hang around with a guy who nails their guts and their malleable rear ends to the wall for all the world to see, so that they can draw in pity and attention- just what they’re not getting from him.
It’s kind of like the girl (excuse the shitty example) who harms her baby to make it cry so that when it is rescued by those around it who are innocent and unsuspecting, she will assume all the attention for herself.
They think they actually have the power to change the man.
This one is probably the most common of all- these chicks think that playing the pin cushion and poo poo bag, and some flypaper- ready and available to stick themselves to all the things about the dude that are creepy, crawly and parasitic is going to get the guy to change. She’ll take on his problems and assume them for herself, thus removing the brunt and burden of the pain he has to endure.
He’ll then suddenly have an epiphanic moment of clarity and heart that’ll make him want to morph from an all-knowing asshole into a dashing and devoted dude.
Truth is, they don’t want a loving and caring dude because that goes against anything they want to convince themselves they stand for. They don’t want him to change because if he did, he would no longer be appealing. He’d be the nice dude they done dumped last week- which is precisely why they stay committed to the dickhead in the first place.
Indeed, he’s a dick and she’s a p*ssy.
They see the same traits in the man that they see in themselves that need to be fixed. Yet instead of fixing themselves, they try to fix him instead.
When they look at him they see a pile of broken wood chips torn off a block and a half-baked sour bread loaf of a man of whom they want to do some soul searching. When in actuality, these women are the ones who need to search deep inside their souls and ask themselves why they feel amorous for a man who is more or less a quasi moral mess.
They want the emotionally bankrupt guy because they themselves are emotionally bankrupt- something tragic that they want to dress up in fine silken lace and linen and disguise it as a redeeming quality.
They don’t want to be treated like ladies. They want to be treated like subservient little girls.
I explained before in “The Difference Between Girls and Women” series how a woman should have to evolve into herself and her character. And inevitably, some women remain stuck in the girl phase. You’ll know it soon enough because she’s total drama.
She invites drama because it’s all about her do-gooder nature and how much she gives and gives and gives, and less about how many excuses she readily “buys” and makes for him. A little girl can’t make her own way, so she relies on a man to lead her around by the nose and makes her wear mud on it so that she can be “comfortable” in her own shrouded and ill-reputed skin- the skin she hides under because she herself isn’t ready to grow up.
They don’t know what the eff they want, so they compete for what they think every other woman wants- which is usually the bum ass loser no other woman can land.
This falls very much in line with inexperience although, there may be other things about the men they are enamored with who treat them second-class such as, he’s hot, has a big dick, has a lot of friends in high places, kisses really well, has money, drives a rice racer, etc.
Really, it has nothing to do with the guy per se, but has more to do with what their friends think and the “status” they believe they will achieve by landing themselves a bad boy. It mirrors the same concept as your typical douche guy adding as many notches to his belt as he can, except women think landing a bad boy who treats her like a pile of dog shit is cool and admirable.
Just think of them in terms of being among a mass of rotten apples competing for the most rotten of the bunch.
So guys, next time you suspect that chick you’re dating may be a lover of losery losers, try being nice and treating her really well. You’ll know what kind of woman she is soon enough because she’ll either run away or run readily right smack dab into your arms.
A sane woman demands to be treated right, while the crazy ones submit to being treated like manure.